Elder abuse is a serious problem that affects millions, yet is grossly under reported (Tatara & Kuzmeskus, para. 1). Society’s negative attitudes towards the aging community make it easier for abuse to happen without discovery or interference (Fredrickson, p. 10). The elderly are especially vulnerable because they are dependent on others for survival and many times the caregiver is actually the abuser (Fredrickson, p. 5). What is so surprising about elder abuse is not only the astounding number of victims but also that the abusers in most situations are family members (Fredrickson, p. 2). More awareness of this social problem needs to be raised in order to stop the mistreatment of the elderly.
According to the American Psychological Association, elder abuse is anything that inflicts harm on an older adult (APA, para. 12). The most frequent type of abuse is neglect, followed by physical abuse, financial exploitation, and emotional abuse (Fredrickson, p. 2). Victims of elder abuse are generally older people who cannot meet their own essential needs and have to depend on others to help care for them. Those who are frail, disabled, ill, or mentally impaired are particularly vulnerable to be taken advantage of or abused (Fredrickson, p. 5). However, any aging person is an easy target for mistreatment due to society’s negative attitudes towards the aging. Society stigmatizes seniors as weaker and less significant than the rest of the population. This causes many people to disregard the rights of the aging and treat them as if they were disposable (APA, para. 44).
Each year “2.1 million older Americans are victims of physical, psychological, or other forms of abuse and neglect” (Fredrickson, p. 2). This statistic is scary enough on its own, however for every case that is reported “experts estimate there many be as many as 5 cases not reported” (Fredrickson, p. 2). Abuse can cause great suffering to the victim including depression, fear, shame, guilt, physical pain and financial ruin (Wolf, para. 4). Considering the consequences and the frequency of abuse occurring in the older population it is astonishing what little attention is called to the problem.
When most of us think about elder abuse we likely imagine poorly run nursing homes, a disgruntled hired caregiver, or even a conman swindling seniors out of their life savings. However, in reality the majority of elder abuse actually occurs at the hands of a family member or spouse (Fredrickson, p. 2). It is hard for most of us to conceive mistreating a loved one or vice versa. However, caring for an aging family member can cause a great deal of emotional and financial stress and lead the caregiver to act out in unexpected ways. The responsibilities of a caregiver only escalate as the elder grows older and their health deteriorates. “The stress of elder care can lead to mental and physical health problems that make caregivers burned our, impatient, and unable to keep from lashing out against elders in their care” (Robinson, Benedictis, & Segal, para. 21). This is not so say abuse caused by stress is justified in anyway, but I believe it generally does not occur with the vicious intention to hurt the elderly.
The darker side of elder abuse is when someone, likely a family member, betrays the trust of the elderly and deliberately hurts them. For example, 34-year old Donna Mitchell who stole more than $212,000 in annuities for her ex-husbands 90-year old grandmother in 1999 (Wilson, para. 19). Or scarier yet a man who was caught leaving his 92-year old father on the side of a highway too die, in 39 degree weather (Cole, para. 1). I believe these incidences do not arise from stress or frustration, but from greed and a malicious resolve to harm. Luckily in both these examples the abusers were caught and charged for their cruelty. However, in most causes the abusers are not exposed and go unpunished (Cole, para. 8).
A major reason elder abuse remains so invisible is because victims often hesitate to report their mistreatment (Fredrickson, p. 10). Kyle G. Brown, as cited by Harold Cox, points out that many “older adults often feel guilty talking publicly about private matters” (Cox, p. 54). They may feel shameful about their situation and thus keep their suffering to themselves (Fredrickson, p. 10). According to legal advocate, Mary Beals-Luedtka, many “elders may be really aftaid to report because that might be the only person in their life” (Cole, para. 20). Or they are simply protecting their family members from getting in trouble with the law (Robinson, para. 24). They might also “fear retaliation from the abuser… [or] believe that if they turn in their abusers, no one else will take care of them” (Robinson, para. 23). I believe making excuses like these are all natural reactions for a victim to feel in an abusive situation, however, keeping quite only empowers the abuser and perpetuate further cruelty. Perhaps if more awareness is brought to the subject of elder abuse, the victims could feel more confident to come forward and report their abusers.
Even with the high prevalence of elder abuse, the problem remains widely ignored. Due to societies negative views about the aged, and the fact that family members are generally the abusers, it is no wonder elderly victims hesitate to report mistreatment. Instead many feel they are forced to deal with the abuse and the numerous consequences on their own. My hope is that more awareness is brought to this sensitive subject so that a growing number of victimized elderly with feel that they can come forward and stop their abuse.
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